[R] Provide helpful hints for NotImplemented kernel errors

[nealrichardson]

Describe the enhancement requested

From #44652 (comment). Catch errors like "no kernel matching input types" and provide hints on things like dictionary type in Arrow is like factor in R, to help users interpret what failed.

Maybe this can be done in try_arrow_dplyr() or similar, and/or maybe we want helpers like in util.R.

Component(s)

R