Give recursion limit errors a span

[oli-obk]

For example in https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/blob/master/tests/ui/infinite/infinite-struct.rs we get an error like

error: reached the recursion limit finding the struct tail for `Take`
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   = help: consider increasing the recursion limit by adding a `#![recursion_limit = "256"]`

We could pass in the obligation cause to struct_tail_raw and use its span for the main message and report a note for the obligation

Originally posted by @oli-obk in #135464 (comment)

[tanvincible]

Hello @oli-obk! I'd like to take a stab at it.

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