HA: Limit max open database connections to 1

Previously, the HA feature was allowed to open `max_connections`
database connection in parallel to other Icinga DB components. Meaning,
Icinga DB wasn't limited to the configured `max_connections`, but
effectively to `2 * max_connections`. Additionally, this masked a
serious bug in the `HA#realize()` method, where we start a new
transaction after each retry without rolling back in case of an error,
leading to connections not being released before exceeding the ctx
deadline.

cmd/icingadb/main.go

@@ -113,6 +113,7 @@ func run() int {
 			logger.Fatalf("%+v", errors.Wrap(err, "can't create database connection pool from config"))
 		}
 		defer func() { _ = db.Close() }()
+		db.SetMaxOpenConns(1)
 		ha = icingadb.NewHA(ctx, db, heartbeat, logs.GetChildLogger("high-availability"))
 
 		telemetryLogger := logs.GetChildLogger("telemetry")