ggml : rewrite silu and softmax for cpu

This change upstreams llamafile's vectorized expf() functions. This lets
us compute softmax and silu more accurately than the short[65536] lookup
table that GGML previously used to make this operation go faster. We can
support aarch64 and sse2+ with the worst case rounding error of 2ulp. It
makes make -j8 tests && ./tests/test-backend-ops -o SOFT_MAX -b CPU perf
go 1.5x faster for SSE2+FMA, 1.9x faster for AVX2+FMA and 2.1x on AVX512