[Enhancement] Add an option to config timeout for committing transaction

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• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
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Which issues of this PR fixes ：

Fixes #395

Problem Summary(Required) ：

Flink throw StreamLoadFailException when get database write lock timeout during commit transaction.

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• This pr will affect users' behaviors
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
• I have added documentation for my new feature or new function

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