ci: add node 20.x & use latest action dependencies

[erisu]

Platforms affected

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Motivation and Context

Update CI Action

Description

• Add Node 20.x
• Use latest Action dependencies

Testing

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Checklist

• I've run the tests to see all new and existing tests pass
• I added automated test coverage as appropriate for this change
• Commit is prefixed with (platform) if this change only applies to one platform (e.g. (android))
• If this Pull Request resolves an issue, I linked to the issue in the text above (and used the correct keyword to close issues using keywords)
• I've updated the documentation if necessary