Update arrow/parquet to arrow/parquet `53.3.0` #35183

Job	Run time
Check License Header	2m 18s
cargo check	9m 17s
build with wasm-pack	2m 49s
cargo test (macos)	13m 9s
cargo test (win64)	1h 7m 53s
cargo test (macos-aarch64)	12m 41s
Check cargo fmt	37s
Verify MSRV (Min Supported Rust Version)	8m 58s
Verify Vendored Code	1m 1s
cargo examples (amd64)	13m 39s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	4m 9s
clippy	6m 14s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	28m 44s
cargo doc	4m 40s
cargo test (amd64)	11m 33s
cargo test doc (amd64)	16m 31s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	4m 3s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	3m 1s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	13m 17s
check Cargo.toml formatting	2m 49s
check configs.md and ***_functions.md is up-to-date	3m 2s
	3h 50m 25s

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