[VL] Fix Arrow ColumnarBatch cannnot revoke rowIterator correctly #3974

Job	Run time
build-native-lib-centos-7	44m 35s
build-native-lib-centos-8	1h 34m 32s
run-tpc-test-ubuntu-oom	0s
run-tpc-test-centos	0s
run-tpc-test-ubuntu-randomkill	0s
run-tpc-test-ubuntu	0s
run-tpc-test-centos8-uniffle	0s
run-tpc-test-ubuntu-2204-celeborn	0s
run-spark-test-spark32	59m 16s
run-spark-test-spark33-slow	27m 20s
run-spark-test-spark34	56m 36s
run-spark-test-spark34-slow	29m 5s
run-spark-test-spark32-slow	23m 24s
run-spark-test-spark33	1h 1m 48s
run-spark-test-spark35	1h 6m 17s
run-spark-test-spark35-slow	32m 0s
run-spark-test-spark35-scala213	1h 3m 26s
	9h 18m 19s

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