fix: optimise pod finalizers with merge patch and resourceVersion #21160

Job	Run time
argoexec-image	2m 37s
Get changed files	8s
Lint	4m 8s
Unit Tests	4m 24s
Codegen	5m 8s
Windows Unit Tests	7m 51s
UI	0s
E2E Tests (test-executor, minimal)	14m 15s
E2E Tests (test-corefunctional, minimal)	12m 32s
E2E Tests (test-functional, minimal)	20m 29s
E2E Tests (test-api, mysql)	6m 37s
E2E Tests (test-cli, mysql)	10m 35s
E2E Tests (test-cron, minimal)	7m 1s
E2E Tests (test-examples, minimal)	6m 2s
E2E Tests (test-plugins, plugins)	3m 50s
E2E Tests (test-java-sdk, minimal)	3m 32s
E2E Tests (test-python-sdk, minimal)	2m 55s
E2E Tests (test-executor, v1.26.15+k3s1, minimal)	13m 58s
E2E Tests (test-corefunctional, v1.26.15+k3s1, minimal)	13m 35s
E2E Tests (test-functional, v1.26.15+k3s1, minimal)	21m 18s
E2E Tests - Composite result	1s
	2h 40m 56s

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