feat(s2n-quic): improve local handshake failure visibility (#2383) #5042

Job	Run time
env	5s
s2n-quic-qns (debug)	2m 43s
s2n-quic-qns (release)	6m 50s
h3spec (s2n-tls)	15s
interop (aioquic, s2n-quic)	16m 37s
perf (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	1m 12s
h3spec (rustls)	16s
bench	13m 40s
interop (chrome, s2n-quic)	5m 24s
perf (s2n-quic-null, s2n-quic-null)	1m 53s
interop (go-x-net, s2n-quic)	11m 45s
attack (udp)	5m 45s
interop (kwik, s2n-quic)	14m 2s
interop (lsquic, s2n-quic)	13m 51s
interop (msquic, s2n-quic)	16m 41s
interop (mvfst, s2n-quic)	11m 37s
interop (neqo, s2n-quic)	15m 4s
interop (ngtcp2, s2n-quic)	14m 32s
interop (picoquic, s2n-quic)	15m 33s
interop (quic-go, s2n-quic)	13m 37s
interop (quiche, s2n-quic)	17m 27s
interop (quinn, s2n-quic)	14m 6s
interop (s2n-quic, aioquic)	14m 12s
interop (s2n-quic, go-x-net)	11m 32s
interop (s2n-quic, haproxy)	11m 52s
interop (s2n-quic, kwik)	13m 6s
interop (s2n-quic, lsquic)	11m 56s
interop (s2n-quic, msquic)	12m 40s
interop (s2n-quic, mvfst)	11m 27s
interop (s2n-quic, neqo)	13m 26s
interop (s2n-quic, nginx)	10m 55s
interop (s2n-quic, ngtcp2)	12m 31s
interop (s2n-quic, picoquic)	12m 10s
interop (s2n-quic, quic-go)	11m 10s
interop (s2n-quic, quiche)	11m 41s
interop (s2n-quic, quinn)	12m 14s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	13m 5s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic-rustls)	12m 24s
interop (s2n-quic, xquic)	5m 36s
interop (s2n-quic-rustls, s2n-quic)	12m 15s
interop (xquic, s2n-quic)	9m 44s
perf-report	19s
interop-report	24s
	7h 17m 34s

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