chore(query): improve insert and replace explain #17747

Job	Run time
changes	22s
linux_hive / build (x86_64, gnu)	11m 57s
linux / build_udf (x86_64, X64)	11m 57s
linux / check	10m 13s
linux / build (x86_64, X64)	14m 9s
linux / test_unit	18m 51s
linux_hive / test_stateful_hive_standalone	2m 16s
linux / test_compat_meta_query	0s
linux / test_metactl	0s
linux / test_compat_meta_meta	0s
linux / test_compat_fuse	0s
linux / test_logs	0s
linux / test_meta_cluster	0s
linux / test_stateful_standalone	0s
linux / test_stateless_cluster	0s
linux / test_stateless_standalone	0s
linux / sqllogic	0s
linux / test_ee_management_mode	0s
linux / test_ee_standalone	0s
linux / test_ee_standalone_background	0s
linux / test_stateful_cluster	0s
linux / test_stateful_iceberg_rest	0s
linux / test_stateful_large_data	0s
ready	2s
	1h 9m 47s

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