fix: Fix conditional use_effect in use_table_listener

[jnumainville]

fixes #384

Moves the refreshing table check to ensure the use_effect is always called.
Also added a use_effect to use_table_data to ensure that when a table is swapped it updates the resulting data

Here is an example of flipping between ticking and static tables

import deephaven.ui as ui
from deephaven.table import Table
from deephaven import time_table, empty_table

empty_t = empty_table(0)
time_t = time_table("PT1S").tail(1)

@ui.component
def test_component():
    empty, set_empty = ui.use_state(True)
    val = ui.use_table_data(empty_t if empty else time_t)
    button = ui.action_button(str(empty), on_press=lambda: set_empty(not empty))

    return [button, str(val)]

data = test_component()