chore(binaries): Small tweaks for latest reth and lighthouse.

[ryanschneider]

• Lighthouse dropped the "-portable" suffix as of 5.3.0, now all the image are "portable"
• They also now require the --suggested-fee-recipient when running bn as well, I copied the same recipient as the validator.

However, keeping this a draft until I figure out why the bn isn't synced in time:

Stopping reth
Stopping beacon_node
Stopping validator
Error: failed to create relay: beacon client failed to start

Edit: it must be some other change to LH, seems to be coming up on the wrong fork:

Oct 01 22:13:07.004 INFO Ready for Bellatrix                     current_difficulty: 0, terminal_total_difficulty: 0, service: slot_notifier

Edit 2: After diffing the two logs, these are all the log lines that are included in the 5.3.0 log that aren't in 5.2.1:

>  INFO Prepared beacon proposer                parent_root: 0x68a8afe0f967f0087769172706a6f89524b565fc7726f290ccf99722a420b5a2, validator: 78, prepare_slot: 1, service: beacon
>  INFO Found terminal block hash               block_hash: 0xb62f7a677c9034d497d5547514d886145a105b1b358300bf02f70ab299ca6a29, terminal_total_difficulty: 0, terminal_block_hash_override: 0x0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000, service: exec
>  INFO Prepared POS transition block proposer  slot: 1, service: beacon
>  INFO Execution engine online                 service: exec
>  INFO Issuing forkchoiceUpdated               forkchoice_state: ForkchoiceState { head_block_hash: 0xb62f7a677c9034d497d5547514d886145a105b1b358300bf02f70ab299ca6a29, safe_block_hash: 0x0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000, finalized_block_hash: 0x0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 }, service: exec
>  WARN Low peer count                          peer_count: 0, service: slot_notifier
>  INFO Searching for peers                     current_slot: 0, head_slot: 0, finalized_epoch: 0, finalized_root: 0x68a8…b5a2, peers: 0, service: slot_notifier
>  WARN Syncing deposit contract block cache    est_blocks_remaining: initializing deposits, service: slot_notifier
>  INFO Ready for Bellatrix                     current_difficulty: 0, terminal_total_difficulty: 0, service: slot_notifier

Edit 3: Ok, I got confirmation from the lighthouse team that 5.3.0 has some regressions for single node testnets like ours that our fixed in unstable. I was able to confirm that using a self-built version of lighthouse unstable alongside --use-bin-path works with the changes in this PR, so I think I'll just keep it a draft until there's another LH release.