fetch node object from apiserver when (un)cordoning

[danj-replicated]

Description

when cordoning/uncordoning controlNodes for autopilot, fetch Node object from APIserver instead of trying to cast from signalNode.

Fixes #3739

Type of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Documentation update

How Has This Been Tested?

• Manual test
• Auto test added

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• New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes
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[twz123]

Thanks a lot for poking into this!

[k0s-bot]

Successfully created backport PR for release-1.28:

• [Backport release-1.28] fetch node object from apiserver when (un)cordoning #3743