[SYCL] Optimize mul_mat for Q4_0 on Intel GPU (#12035) * opt performance by reorder for Intel GPU * detect hw type and save opt feature, and print opt feature * correct name * support optimize graph once when compute graph, record the opt status in tensor->extra, make CI passed * add env variable GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT for debug * use syclex::architecture replace the custom hw define, update the guide for GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT * add performance data * mv getrows functions to separeted files * fix global variables --------- Co-authored-by: arthw <[email protected]>