assert: show diff when doing partial comparisons with a custom message

[puskin94]

following the same reasoning as this PR:

right now the method assert.partialDeepStrictEqual does not show the diff when the assertion fails.
With this PR we go from this:

const assert = require('assert');

assert.partialDeepStrictEqual([1, 2, 3, 5], [4, 5]);

to this

with a custom error message:

Relevant changes:

1. enabled the diff when assert.partialDeepStrictEqual fails
2. enabled the diff when assert.partialDeepStrictEqual fails with a custom error message
3. added different diff style in case assert.partialDeepStrictEqual fails:

• properties available in actual are gray
• properties in expected but not in actual are prefixed with the classic red -
• properties present in both actual and expected are white

[BridgeAR]

How to show the diff for the partial implementation has been one of my main concerns for a while and my current idea is to grey out or hide all lines that are not in the expected object. That way it would be more straight forward for the user.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 88.53%. Comparing base (3851edf) to head (3db0829).
Report is 20 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Hits       167493   168123     +630     
- Misses      14977    14979       +2     
+ Partials     6791     6788       -3     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/assert.js	99.10% <100.00%> (-0.01%)	⬇️
lib/internal/assert/assertion_error.js	95.44% <100.00%> (+0.07%)	⬆️
lib/internal/assert/myers_diff.js	90.05% <100.00%> (+0.23%)	⬆️

... and 38 files with indirect coverage changes