contrib/intel: synchronize with main

New CI uses slurm instead of Jenkins node allocation.  Update branch to new scripts
but remove invalid tests:
- DSA (not supported in 1.16)
- shm ZE testing (shm does not support full test suite in 1.16)
- OneCCL tcp (function not supported in 1.16)
- mpich test suite failing tests (were failing before but not caught properly because no summary stage).
  This is a small regression in testing but reduces testing and failures on 1.16.x
  which is not regularly maintained

Also changes name of dmabuf test which was changed after 1.16 from fi-rdmabw-xe

Signed-off-by: Alexia Ingerson <[email protected]>