Attempt to migrate build system to nanobind, scikit-build-core, and cmake

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This is an attempt to migrate the phono3py build system for using nanobind, scikit-build-core, and cmake like phonopy/phonopy#383.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 77.77778% with 4 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 65.57%. Comparing base (a981a04) to head (5df6b5b).
Report is 8 commits behind head on develop.

Files	Patch %	Lines
cmake-format.py	0.00%	4 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##           develop     #247      +/-   ##
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- Coverage    65.66%   65.57%   -0.09%     
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  Files           72       73       +1     
  Lines        12817    12831      +14     
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- Hits          8416     8414       -2     
- Misses        4401     4417      +16     

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