Fixing osx arm64 wheel

[wckdouglas]

Hi, this PR intends to fix 2 things:

• github actions not producing arm64 Mach-0 files but local builds do #55
• all of the wheel github actions are building for all python versions, which means we are duplicating the builds

Let me know if it makes sense!

Tested with commit 8bc1576, artifact.zip from here

$ sysctl -n machdep.cpu.brand_string
Apple M1
$ unzip artifact.zip
$ pip --version
pip 23.1.2 from /Users/../lib/python3.10/site-packages/pip (python 3.10)
$ pip install tmap_viz-1.0.18-cp310-cp310-macosx_11_0_arm64.whl --force-reinstall
$ python --version
Python 3.10.11
$ python -c "import tmap"

[doublethefish]

#68 supersedes this commit. Thanks for the commit, but I will close and abandon this.

One reason is because the actual intended fix appears to have been merged with the dependabot change and you (or I) would have to unpick it.

[wckdouglas]

@doublethefish that sounds great! thanks for pushing the fix!