FIX Correctly share cache between CLI and non-CLI

[GuySartorelli]

Description

Fixes a bug where config can get out of sync between CLI and non-CLI contexts.

Requires symfony to release a fix for symfony/symfony#53962 on their end.
While there's no harm in merging this early in theory, we should hold off until they're resolved the underlying bug in case the resolution has flow-on effects.

Manual testing steps

Steps are mentioned in the linked issue.

Issues

• Cache is not correctly shared between CLI and non-CLI #11145

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[GuySartorelli]

Looks like the idea that APCu cache can be flushed by CLI is just fundamentally not a thing.
Some of this PR may still be useful (i.e. using PhpFilesAdapter for both CLI and non-CLI), but should be done from scratch.