user-APIs: forbid setting non-existing attribute

[kecnry]

Description

This pull request prevents setting attributes on user-APIs (currently plugin APIs, but eventually perhaps viewer APIs as well via #2563). This prevents user-confusion caused by typos, etc.

imviz.plugins['Plot Options'].mistyped_or_nonexisting_attribute = 5  # now raises an error

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[pllim]

Would be less confusing if we wanna be strict about the public API and stuff. Thanks!