Fix bug which should delete node from store when node is not found

[zhengxiexie]

8153:2024-12-24 13:20:56.232	INFO	node/node_controller.go:40	reconciling node	{"node": {"name":"192-163-127-8"}}
8154:2024-12-24 13:20:56.234	INFO	node/node_controller.go:46	node not found	{"req": {"name":"192-163-127-8"}}
8596:2024-12-24 13:48:43.606	INFO	node/node_controller.go:40	reconciling node	{"node": {"name":"192-163-127-8"}}
8597:2024-12-24 13:48:43.607	INFO	node/node.go:78	node alreay cached	{"node.Fqdn": "192-163-127-8", "node.UniqueId": "78dac851-95a4-4b78-84f0-acd69c7244e1"}
9179:2024-12-24 13:58:41.968	ERROR	pod/pod_controller.go:86	failed to get node ID for pod	{"pod.Name": {"name":"test-0","namespace":"ns-2"}, "pod.UID": "a84b008a-230c-4d5a-a088-0e1c5d230962", "node": "192-163-127-8", "error": "multiple node IDs found for node 192-163-127-8: [78dac851-95a4-4b78-84f0-acd69c7244e1 d90046e7-4992-4739-822e-663c95a9dfaf]"}

From the log, we can see when node is deleted, there is node not found error, and there are still two node ids in store.
The phase node.ObjectMeta.DeletionTimestamp being not zero is intermittent, and it is more possible the node is not found, we should delete the node from store.

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 85.71429% with 1 line in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 73.37%. Comparing base (c729a64) to head (5a770d7).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
pkg/controllers/node/node_controller.go	85.71%	1 Missing ⚠️

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pkg/controllers/node/node_controller.go	51.89% <85.71%> (+10.56%)	⬆️

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[zhengxiexie]

/e2e

[zhengxiexie]

/e2e

[yanjunz97]

LGTM

[lxiaopei]

LGTM