change(ci): Updates dependabot.yml

[arya2]

Motivation

We want dependabot to update ECC dependencies separately from other production dependencies. This was working before, it seems it stopped working mid-October. I'm not sure if this PR will fix the issue either, but it updates the groups to look more like the examples in the dependabot config docs.

Related to #8431.

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Solution

• Refactors patterns and exclude-patterns in the groups to pattern items instead of single big patterns

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Merge this and see if Dependabot opens an ECC group update?

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[oxarbitrage]

looks good to me, thnaks!

[arya2]

@gustavovalverde any idea why the windows tests aren't running or being skipped?

[mpguerra]

I decided to admin merge this one in the end, was just waiting for windows tests